REINCARNATION - Truth or not ????

Few days before a new show on Reincarnation has been started. It come on NDTV imagine. Many people come and get the information about their past lives. Many celebrities have also come. There is one Dr. who by her words takes them into their previous births. Lot of information is collected to solve the problems he/she faces in this birth.

The question is – Does a man have a rebirth?
Does a soul migrate from one life time to another?
Can he recollect the memories of his past life?
Do we have to pay for our bad deeds done in earlier life?
Are our earlier relatives still with us in our present lives, just by changing relations of that time?
Can we wish anything now for our next birth?
When this rebirth does happen?
Why does it happen?
Is our next birth dependent on our karmas of the present life?
Above all, does it rule out the believe that after death, one goes to heaven or hell?

There are so many questions running in my mind.
It is said that if a person wished something at the time of his death then that person gets a rebirth.

I remember my aaji (grandmother) used to say that if you do good then you get a birth of human otherwise you become an animal. If this way it goes, then all animals were bad humans and all humans were good animals. But as per the show all those who have come, have some kind of fear in them.

Like one lady died in an aero plane so in this birth she is very afraid to sit in it.
Another, Monika Bedi lost her husband in a truck accident in her previous birth and at the death moment he said “phir milenge” and she thinks that she has met him in her present life(though subconsciously also she didn’t tell his name), which sometimes make me think …is all fake things going on.

My Mil says that my husband has got a rebirth. Once in his childhood, everyone went to Konark Temple. Reaching there he recognized every part of it…he knew every nook and corner of the temple, which surprised everyone in the family as no one from the family had visited that place before. This incident again brings me to same question, Does it really happen?? If yes then:

Am I also reincarnated?
What was I in my previous births?
After how many years I have got this birth?

Did i do something wrong? which i think I have not, going by my aaji's theory.

Do I have a fear of anything? hmm...insects...so??
And, What’s the purpose of this birth? Like Rishi Kapoor had in the film 'Karz' and SRK had in the film 'Om Shanti Om'.

I often wish to know all these, but am scared to know coz, if I had done something wrong then that can effect my present life. So without thinking I will agree to one of my friend's opinion that it only gives tesion when one knows it. Hence no quest to know mine.

But still this whole thing mounts up the interest in me to know more. And if given a chance what would one want to be in next birth? You tell your's…….but you will have to go to heaven not hell. I think this choice of choosing an option would be provided to those only. So start acting nicely. :-)