Saturday, May 8, 2010

One person remains unchanged!!!

Today’s day reminds me of the day when I became a Mother. Natural pains started at about 4 in the morning, was taken to the hospital at 9.30 am…… all the process went in vain when Dr advised for the Cesar. Soon as I was shifted to O.T. Here in OT I felt quite safe coz I knew no more pains would be borne by me now.

At 2.09 pm I delivered a baby boy. I dint care what was his gender but the first thought came was Ah! I m relaxed and free now. The next moment I saw him. “WoW!!! I have a cute little baby” I was a mother then. The bestest feeling…Alas Men are devoid of such feeling.

Everyone outside the O.T. was so much anxious to know the result. As soon as the Dr came outside every one asked her, “How is the Baby?” “Is he a boy or a girl?” “Whom he looks like?” and similar questions like any one would ask.

But there was the only person whose first question was, “How is the mother?”














It was my AAI (mother)….....



PS-the nurse came to me and told all this. She said she could recognize instantly who my mother was, when she heard this question…..:-)




FEW PICS SHARED: the bond of child and mother should remain always..........(A wish to GOD)




At the end their is a famous line in Marathi......and has got a lot of meaning ----

"Bala Hoyu kashi me utarayi, Tujhya mule me Jhale aai"

Meaning - Child how would I pay back the debt to you, because of you I have become a mother

51 comments:

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  2. sahi kaha hai kisi ne

    बेसन की सोंधी रोटी पर खट्टी चटनी जैसी माँ


    kisi ne ye bhee kahaa hai ...

    When U are a mother, U r never really alone in Ur thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.

    kisi ne ye bhee kahaa hai ....

    Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since the payment is pure love.
    Happy Mother`s Day!


    aapne itnaa anmol pal hamse share kiya ... dhanyavaad .... bahut bahut dhanyavaad detaa hoon aapko

    pics are really very very very very very NICE ........

    last lines ne to sach me आंखें नम kar dee .phir bhee चेहरे पर निर्मल मुस्कान thee. sach me, maa kitni vinamra hoti hai

    main to ye mantaa hoon

    agar koi shabd hai jiska varnan karna, arth batana vidvano ke bhee bas ki baat nahi hai,to vo hai

    ....."माँ".........

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  3. vaise, i have also created a post on mothers day..

    i am sure ... you will Love it

    oh , i forgot

    aapne mere blog par post read karne ko kaha thaa

    ab to aapko dono post read karnee hongi


    Right Now ...LOL :):)

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  4. Happy Mother's Day! Nice pics and enjoy bringing up your child. Yes, moms are so special. They love us selflessly and know us instinctively.

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  5. very lovely post Ro !! It touched me..such are mothers... :)

    Happy Mother's Day to Kaku from me too :)

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  6. awwwwwwwww you son looks great.. and a very happy mothers day to youuuuu...

    god bless

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  7. Kudos to all the mothers..
    *Wondering why men don't have labor pain*

    *still wondering*

    All Mothers are God..

    Cheers

    Nuts

    p.s. Fathers too are God..:)

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  8. Happy mothers day!

    Great! Mothers are great by Default..

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  9. mothers r special...they think with heart....i love all mothers.....i mean mine nd my frndz mothers..t.cre

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  10. So nice and touching...

    Feels so good to read a post on Mother's day from a mother...
    here I am thinking of a gift to buy my Mom...

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  11. मदर्स डे के शुभ अवसर पर ...... टाइम मशीन से यात्रा करने के लिए.... इस लिंक पर जाएँ :
    http://my2010ideas.blogspot.com/2010/05/blog-post.html

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  12. @ GA - sach kaha aapne.....aapke bol atyant prabhavshil hai....and yes dnt wry..i m straight to ur post with my feedbacks....:-)

    @ Rachna - Happy Mother's Day to u too and ur mom....

    @ Bikram - thnx and same to u to and ur mom...

    @ Nu - thnx and same to u too...dear...

    @ Nippu - thnx....God is biased ..... he has given such pleasure to women only....i dnt mind its a life time experince...fathers are too God....they r too lovely....

    @ Raj - thnx and same to u too....:-)

    @ BS - thnx man and Happy mothers day to u and aunty....have u bought the gift for her??

    @ Jon - Dnt think, just buy...and tell me wat u bought...:-) and happy Mothers Days to u and ur mother ....

    @ GA - next step, at ur blog....:-)

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  13. Women were created from the Left side of God while Men from the right side..
    So they are nearer to heart and so the reason of their sweetness is well defined..
    Nearer to heart is nearer to God or simply God..:)
    U can take the poem and show it to ur mom.
    Just remember me once while showing..
    Thats all I want.
    May mother's love never end..:)
    Happy mothers day again..:)

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  14. happy mothers day
    all over the world in which we find the same qualities
    Mother and her love
    where ever we go she is no.1

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  15. very sweet :)

    happy mother's day :D

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  16. u gave a beautiful touch of love to the end of ur post...sweet..

    thanks for sharing

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  17. The question your Aai asked to the nurse...Man nobody thought of that..even when I was reading the post..I thought oh she got a Boy or a girl...
    I have no words to describe.

    P.S. Your Son is really cute!

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  18. @ Nippu - yes sure, will think of u...u kn i m thinking of giving her ur blog's website..she loves reading too....is that fine?

    @ SM - thnx and same ot u tooo

    @ BE - To you tooo...thnx

    @ RD - Thnx for liking it...mothers are spl so tried doing it beautifuly as mothers do...

    @ Abhay - thnx....son is cute as well as naughty..:-)

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  19. Amazing way to write about your mother. Speaks volumes, must say. Yes, she surely is special.

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  20. @ Shayon - thnx man....Happy Mothers days to u and ur mom...:-)

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  21. Happy mother's day. Cute pictures. All the very best for the mother in you.

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  22. no gift given..just love 4 her....thnx!

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  23. Rohini,

    Mother is next to God only. Motherhood is a blessing which has to be understood and enjoyed but few only are capable of that. Good photographs. You may not believe it but when our children were born I asked what your mother had.

    Take care

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  24. Nice post! Mummy(s) are always the best!

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  25. Well Put!!

    You are a Maharashtrian? From which part of the state?

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  26. @ Jack Sir - Thnx for ur comment sir..ur children should be proud to ave u as a father..

    @ Karan - thnx...yes they are the best...

    @ TS- Yes i am...:-)

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  27. @ TS - i m marathi but alws been in north india...born in NGP but brought up in various cities of North India..now settled in bhilai after mrg...

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  29. आदरणीया रोहिणी जी,

    एक अनिश्चित समय के लिए ब्लॉग जगत से अलविदा ले रहा हूँ , आपके द्वारा दिया गया प्रोत्साहन मुझे हमेशा याद रहेगा और मुझे विश्वास है की आप भविष्य में इसी तरह नये ब्लॉगेर्स का उत्साह बढ़ाती रहेंगी ......
    आपके पूछे गये प्रश्नो का उत्तर दे दिया है देख लीजिएगा और भी कुछ जानना और सुझाव देना चाहे तो आप कमेंट या ई - मेल का
    प्रयोग कर सकतीं है समय मिलते ही जवाब देने क प्रयास करूँगा

    अलविदा ब्लॉंगर बहना .. हमेशा ख़ुश रहना

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  30. @ GA - thnx for the info...i will definitely see the answeres provided by you ///thnx for that too//i m too these days lazy on writing blogs but will be a regular follower.....

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  31. Very touching. Came to ur space via Rachnas. BTW are u from Bhilai? Asking bcoz i was born and brought up there

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  32. @ Bhagyareema - welcome to my space ///// yes i m frm bhilai..settled here after mrg...nice to here u also belonged to the same twn...so where r u now ?

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  33. Best Statement : "Alas Men are devoid of such feeling"


    Mom ko chaiye jitna tang karo kabhi pareshan khyn nahi hoti....mothers are always right and perfect :)


    Thanks for sharing such a beautiful and personal moment..you touched my heart :)

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  34. @ Simpli.. - thnx dear for feeling the post...many read it..but i liked that the sentiments reached directly...

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  35. a pat for the good post friend..and thanks for yr encouragement to fellow bloggers..wishes always

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  36. @ R.Ramesh - thnx for the wishes....encouragement is progressed bth the ways...thnx...

    @ US - welcome to the blog and thnx for the comment..hope to get more of ur feedback on my post...:-)

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  37. @ BH - thnx for coming here and giving ur comment...thnx a lot :-)

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  38. PS: An award is awaiting for you at my blog! Congratulations!

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  39. Only a mother realizes the pain of her child. Thanks for sharing such a lovely incident.

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  40. @ Karan - Oh lots of thnx for the award, stright at ur blog to grab it...:-)

    @ Rajat - thnx for visiting the BH and for the comment..hope to get such encouragement alws..:-)

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  41. hey R. y is mother in law always such a touchy subject yar?? c yr serials..haha

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  42. @ R. Ramesh - Serials are real trauma...MIls are nt like the way they are potrayed on tv...but really the subject is quite touchy ...

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  43. thats like the sweetest thing i've heard :)!!! believe me!
    thats the power of mother.... as yu are.. as they are

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  44. @ Harry - yes i kn its the best thing god created and sweet too...thnx to all wonderful mothers out there...........

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  45. what is there to ask??

    *wondering*

    Give her the address with my regards.

    Nippu

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  46. @ Ramesh - Cheers to u too...:-)

    @ Nipun - I already showed it to her :-)

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