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I can’t write, I can’t think, I am not getting any topic to write on, but still today I want to write…I want to just flush the thoughts or the events happened in these days with me and my family on to this white e-page……………….

Earlier we used to have diaries which were secretly kept inside our drawers, locked and keys buried at a top secret place too. I too was once bitten by this secret diary obsession…but I got so pissed off that one day I gave it to my cousins to read…My secrets were no more secrets that time….they read it with full pleasure…..it contained my daily routine, my fights, on my school friends etc…..i don’t think there was anything interesting…….but I m sure that it was much closer to me ……as it contained each and every conversation between me and others……my thoughts …my cries…. my happiness and my justification on issues which I couldn’t give at that point of time…

This blog too assembles my thoughts and so on…..but I rarely put my daily activities here……I mean guys I don’t want to bore you……..what a common woman does? Who is interested in that right? Hai na…………….but wait……haannnn…today this post I am writing for self……Myself………I want to recollect all the actions occured this month….

On 6th Aug, I became three years old mother…..Neil gave me immense happiness by coming in this tough world…where I thought – yeah I have got one more partner for whom I have to live and play…….
August not only one Leo was born but also my in-laws…my uncle in-law, and my brother in-law and sis in-law were also born…. So on 6th Aug…the whole big family went to the hotel to celebrate this Leon’s Birthday party….had fun…..

13th Aug was Bouquet Competition day in our school…..and on this day every student is required to bring a hand made bunch/bouquet. And yes Neil got the first prize…….nice…..

15th Independence Day------------was celebrated in school with National Anthem, Flag Hoisting and patriotic songs….students were given chocolates, sweets and National Flag…Our Principal gave a speech on this proud day….. (I dont have the pic right now..but soon I will upload it here)

16th Aug and till now have been the days of illness and medicines…..yesterday Neil was diagnosed with symptoms of Malaria….and the doctor says nothing to worry as its not acute….
I am also down with little temperature, cough and cold…..My husband is also feeling sick……I hope this virus is eradicated permanently….
(God, can we not have a shield, or microscopic eyes…to see this enemy moving towards us…we would instantly guard ourselves ,…….next coming generation would be like this…..I hope so….not only techno.,…but biolo too,,, Do I make sense? Don’t know :) )
Above are the Neil;s Footprints......which i loved clicking...:)

Hmmmm…now that I have finished telling my journal ....I wish to ask few questions now…..(hihihihi)
Q1. When was Neil’s birthday?

Stupid question no……leave it..this is my end……of writing for this post….don’t understand what title to give,,,,now again I stop here..:)

Anyways you all take care….and Be Happy

ANSWER - IS this A Man's World?

Few days before I asked you all a question, “Is this a Man’s world?”

The question comes to me many times.

Basanti, my maid, married a man of her choice, but soon her husband left her for another woman, cheat fully acquiring her property and transferring it to the other lady. Basanti was left alone; she was neither accepted by her family nor by her in-laws. And the real man behind this all, was having fun, with the new woman and the property. Society dint wish to raise any questions against him. But definitely looked at our maid with dubious, and hateful eyes……………This is my first question……Y is a woman treated like this, when her husband leaves her?

There are three girls living in my neighborhood. One of them got married few months before. All the sisters have pleasing personalities, having knowledge in every household activity, in stitching, knitting, etc (all those basic girly things. which are commonly asked at the time of marriage). I have invited them many times at my home, but they never turn up. They say they are afraid of their brother. He doesn’t like his sisters to step out of home. I m not blaming the brother, but I question the mentality. Whether he is afraid of the outside world? Or he just wants to make a point that he, as a man should be always asked before any move of his family members.

I am not planning a second baby right now, but if by chance it happens I wish to have a girl…don’t assume I have a boy so I am saying this…but yes by my all will, I would like to have a girl…… There are many friends of mine who are doing various therapies to have a male child…. They follow Chinese calendar, follow diet chart… follow some kinda Guruji who give them the various kind of dates on which they should plan…and what not….The only purpose is to have a boy. All my friends come from educated, well to do family but crave for a male member still remains in the society. The elder’s pressure is the most common factor. The reason being just one….. ‘Vansh ka naam’ …who will continue their name after their death?? Is it a good reason?…I doubt…but I know the result of this…..Female infanticide!!! Shameful……….

Society-people-are no less than a Ravan for girls these days. If a girl comes late in the home they all worry; they say it’s not good for a girl to stay out at odd times. If we see the other side of the coin, the society must understand that rather than restricting a girl they should create such environment and such space that a girl should roam freely. A boy must be imparted education on this. If a woman is supposed to take care of home, then a man should be held responsible outside home. A girl should feel safe when she moves out. But the opposite happens, people restrict her and again the vicious circle of unsafe world exists. Isn’t it??

Few days before I saw an Ad on TV where a girl comes for an interview in an office, and the man sitting, gets up and walks out of the office….the punch line says- ‘life ka har signal pakdo’…..What does this mean? Can’t a girl get the job on her strengths?….Y should we always believe that she is only credited on her looks…..? ? Is it not underestimating her capabilities? Or else compelling her to go beyond the ethics? Y?

Even if we make our heart believe that it’s a world of equality….the truth remains the same……. And truth is bitter…………….

PS - Guys – But it will not be the same forever………………..