IF LIFE IS NOT EASY, be positive then………………………Simple.

In my earlier post, I mentioned the uneasy nature of life. Life is simple, but due to various reasons, complications, etc it gets difficult for a human being to survive its simplest way.

Our upbringing, our education, our customs, our traditions, our culture, etc evolves peculiar personalities in ourselves. On that basis our psychology, our thinking, our motive, our wishes, our targets, our vision, our outlook for one point depends.

It’s said that we all are the puppets in the hands of GOD. Then why the God sometimes brings us at one point where there’s no answer found by the humans? Earlier also I said that our increasing list of expectation bring dissatisfaction in one’s life. But dil hai ki manta nahi………..it always wants More…..

Sometimes to fulfill those wishes we do such things which are not morally correct. Sometimes later, when we realize, we find ourselves on the cross road and we lose the sense of selecting the right path. This may create baffled and unanswered situations, resulting in twofold thoughts, stress, and multifaceted minds.

People with strong psyche, can strongly face these situations. They can find the way out of any trouble, any problem. These types of people have an optimistic attitude towards life and always try to find out the balance in their life. In any failure too, they come back with force and lead life with full bliss. . Unlike, people having depressive attitudes.

We should always have one thing kept in mind. Life is a mixture of good and bad times…but we have to remember that after every night, day falls. And every new thing is going to be fresh. So live life to the fullest. Feel the happiness, feel the great fragrance of life, and feel the beautiful nature. Look at the positive side. Learn to be happy and lively………

PS: Net Prob still continuing, so sry for nt replying to ur comments. I will again come back on next Sunday, posting another through hubby’s office…:-)))))))

Blog - A Social Networking Site ??

Is Blogger a site where you jot down your thoughts, experiences, judgments, conclusions, and various other things? Or, it is more of a Social Networking Site?

I joined this Blog site because I liked the thought of spilling my thoughts over net…to unlock my mind, to find creativity, to think on something, to analyze, and to write my own answers to the emerged questions on any damn topic. Before coming in to this line, I read many beautiful posts, poetries, saw amazing camera shot pictures, art, etc….I found it really addictive, and felt that I should also start writing or atleast try to write. Not coz I love writing, but because I wanted to run my mind on certain things which I found interesting. My mind was getting stuck at the daily home routine. There was no creativity, no imagination, no thinking process involved in my set activities.

I felt the NEED of change. I was guided by my fellow blogger Nu and then in Dec, 2009 I started feeling the change. From then I have started noticing things more minutely than before. In mind there is now always something running. Need not necessarily be an important topic or may be nothing useful…but I write what I feel like…. Simple…

Blog GAVE me; pleasure, sense of satisfaction, crave of creativeness, probing for the logic, liberty of thoughts, media through which I can pay gratitude, sometimes criticize, and sometimes confess.

I am HAPPY, writing post every week.

But then the QUESTION arises, whether with the time the importance of writing a post gets a back seat and move towards making a social network…creating friends….desire of having a long list of followers???? Every morning logging in to see the current state of the Blog…then matching with the expectations…sometimes writing a post of other’s taste rather than selves…Just to make desirable to others….I have read few blogs, where they write that they don’t know the reason of their writing….few say, they don’t have followers then what’s the use of blogging? Some seam to cheat…some seem to be just pass their time….and some writing the real senti, romantic stories,, which sometimes make me feel …all is made up…

My QUESTION, Are we really Honest in writing the post?? Do we fake sometime?? Does our motive of writing changes, which was initially, purely the satisfaction of our soul?

Karm kiye ja, Fal ki chinta mat kar ye insaan………this famous teaching in Bhagwat Gita…do we really follow it??? Before and after we always imagine of the results and returns in any form….don’t we?

In the case of Blogging too…one feels of recognition, one feels to share and spread one thoughts…..so on………..what’s your take on this? Has your writing been effected, and how? Do you think you are original? Do you feel to make any more changes??...do spill your thoughts…...Be honest/////////////////

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Explaining the Unexplained

This is in relation with my previous post….”Life is simple, not easy”

Thanks to Anuj, Tavish, Anoop, Jack, Sameera, The Survivor for your valuable analysis….I totally agree with all your points… But I wanted examples also ….. So here I am trying to think and simplify the topic with laying few examples…

We have a life…which is quite defined…simple …straight…We do our daily activities with great pleasure…..SIMPLE isn’t it? But when something new happens or if we are required to walk on a new path, we tend to fumble, think and tend to complicate things.
Suppose, (I am trying to lay few common examples which I have/had faced in my life):

a) Waking up early in the morning is simple but not easy…. before marriage I had to get up at 4.00 am in the morning ….my mummy and alarm used to wake me up…the process was quite simple but for me to open my eyes was not easy. It was tough…I had to motivate myself…thinking ki beta koi nahi bus mein so jana(never mind, sleep in the bus) which used to take 1hr to my office….though this 1 hr was also not enough for me....but this wasn’t less than a boost also……

b) Finding a partner as I mentioned in my earlier post…..it looks very simple but is not so easy dear….why so?? You check it in my post….

c) Lying – Lying for some can be easy….but for me its only simple….I can think lots of excuses but while execution - I fail in it…..

d) Taking out time for my school/college/work friends: wishing to call and being in contact with them is very simple to think but in practical not easy…

e) Sometimes our traditions, our customs, our mind set, or our society puts certain parameters and boundaries due to which our area of working or acting gets limited creating a complex situation and hardening the life.

f) Students appearing in Entrance Exam. For them the paper might be easy but at the time of announcement of the results they may find that what they thought was simple but getting their names in the selected list is not that easy.

g) Building a school (in may case) if having all the capital and resources, its quite simple, considering all the requirements….but running it, is not easy.

h) Loving someone is simple as it doesn’t require any detailed rules and regulations, but finding the true love is not easy.

i) Thinking ourselves as the superman/woman is simple but living like that is not easy.

j) Writing down the plans is quite simple but in practical we can face some difficulties….hence .not easy.

k) Giving birth to a child is much simpler than raising a child….its not easy…mind it…

l) Sometimes a person may be found simple....but understanding that person may not be that easy...

We always run behind the things which we want but are never satisfied and are never happy with what we have. With our numerous demands and high ambitions we complicate the things which would have been much simpler otherwise….Never mind…THAT’S LIFE …as we say…..

Sense the change...

Continuing with my song mood….today I want to compare old songs with the new. I don’t want to highlight the copy of music…..but how the trend of expressing one’s thought has changed….
Let’s see how the new lyricists make fresh new song with a twist….

1 – tumne pukara aur hum chale aye….
Jati hun mein, jaldi hai kya….. (This has to happen everytime…)

2 - inhi logo ne …le lina duppatta mera…
Chunari chunari …aja na chu le meri churni sanam… (Hmm…can you notice the change in thinking towards chunni?)

3 – abhi na jayo chhod kar ..ki dil abhi bhara nahi…
Aaj na chhodenge tujhe ..dum duma dum…(are today’s hero so adamant…?understanding naam ki cheej hi nahi hai J)

4 – tum aa gaye ho, noor aa gayi hia…..
Tumse hi din hota hai, surmayi shaam ati hia….. (Did physical presence only effect the days and nights in those days?)

5 - Chup tum raho, chup hum rahen…..
ye tumhari meri baatein, hamesha yunhi chalti rahe….(Oh at least today we women are allowed to speak….Isn’t it??)

6 – Naina tere nainon se meethi meethi batein karte hia…..
dekho ankhiyon se goli mare……..(Eyes are weapons…what say??)

7 – laila mein lailaaaa…aisi hun lailaa…..har koi chahe mujhse milna akela…
Mein laila laila chilayunga, kurta phaad ke…… (Doesn’t your laila need privacy?

8 – abhi na jayoo chood kar, ki dil abhi bhara nahi…..
Chal chale apne ghar, aye mere humsafar… (No question of parting rite…..smart)

9 – ram kare aisa ho jaye, meri nindiya tohe mil jaye, mein jagu tu so jaye….
Yaar ko meine, mujhe yaar ne sone na diya….. (Trends change …what to do?)

10 – barsat mein humse mile tum sajan, tumse mile hum…barsaat mein…
Rain is falling chama cham cham….ladki ne aankh mari gir gaye hum…. (does this happen in real?)

11 – tum kamsin ho, nadan ho, bholi ho…
Sexy sexy sexy , mujhe log bole….(No comments..)

12 – waqt ne kiya kya hasi sitam…
All is well…O bhaiya ……(Moral : Keep smiling…whatever comes…)

13 – mere piya gaye Rangoon, kiya hai wahan se telephun….
What is you mobile number…karoon kya dial number…(our lyricists are having godd technical knowledge)

14 – ye sama, sama hai ye pyaar ka….
Zara zara behekta hai …….(melody suno khud jaan jayoo)

15 – 16 baras ki bali umar ko salaam….
18 baras ki kawari kali, …….(age does matter…??)

16 – Chandi ki cycle, sone ki seat…aao chale darling chale double seat….
Aaja meri gaadi mein baith ja…….(Show offs? but the standard increased)

17 – ye tera ghar ye mera ghar,….
Unchi hai building…lift teri band….(whats the use of a big building…ghar was better)

18 – na maangu sona chandi, na maangu heera moti…….
Paisa pasia karti hai tu, paise pe kyu marti hai…???(Hey girls…I dnt agree this do u??)
19 – ruk ja raat theher ja re chanda……
Aa bhi ja, aa bhi jaa, aye subah aa bhi jaa…(Irony…)

20 – daiya re daiya re, chadh gayo paapi bichua….
Bichhu, ye bichhu, ye bichhu mujhe kaat khayega….(smart girl…getting cautious beforehand)

21 - khwab ho tum ya koi haqeqat
tu hi haqeeqat khwab tu (were earlier heros quiet confused….??)

22 – khullam khulla pyaar karenge hum dono……
Pyaar kiya toh darna kya…..odhli chunariya meine tere naam ki….(Hm…Gud..keep it up)

23 – Dil vil pyaar vyaar mein kya janu re….
Bebo mein Bebo, DIl mera lelo…..(girls were so ignorant then…dint they know the meaning of dil????)

24 – Babuji dheere chalna..pyarr mein zara sambhalana…
Babuji zara dheere chalo, bijli khadi yaha bijli khadi…(what a revolutionary song??)

25 – Choo lene do najuk hothon ko..kuch aur nahi bas jam hai yeh…
Saki saki re saki saki……aa paas aa reh na jaye koi khwaish baki….

26 - nahi nahi abhi nahi...abhi karo intezaar
hey jara ksis me kis me ......( Oh really…??)

At the end...a few songs dedicated for the different stages of married man:

Dulha mil gaya, dulha mil gaya….(excitement of hunting one bakra, ie. Dulha)
Aaj mere yaar ki shadi hai..(which yaar will not be happy …)
Mein toh joru ka ghulam ban ke rahunga…..(false promises …)
Jab se hui hai shadi….aansu baha raha hun….(No Comments….)
Karte hi shadi tera baj gaya baja….(All married men ..I want you to share your views on this point….)

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY

Yesterday evening I went to the Lioness Club function organized on the occasion of Women’s Day. Here I would like you to read the achievements and the ways through which the women of today and then have achieved their goals.

I got to know that there was a competition for ladies – Any potato snack was to be made, and as soon as I entered the lobby of the club, I saw many ladies busy in decorating their dishes. Every plate carrying those potato items, were tempting but sorry I couldn’t taste it as it was first to be tasted by the honorable judges. So I just stood there taking the pictures.

Entering the hall, I saw many women sitting and listening the light music which was being played. I sat near one of my acquaintance and started talking to her (as usual…it’s a ladies habit ….rite) Programme started quite late all credit to the chief guest ...hmmm..its again a habit. Never mind, but it all started very nicely.

After the introduction & the welcome speech the main action commenced…..

Introducing and Honoring the Women

First, came a lady of 73 yrs.. Who made her name in the writing world. At the age of 16 she got married and after marriage she completed her schooling. Her interest towards writing started from the age of nine and was very much encouraged by her father. Later her interest became her love and she started publishing the books in Marathi and then in Hindi. She comes from the Economic Weaker Section, and in her young age she went door to door for the sale of her books. Though through heart she never wanted to sell those books but the need for money compelled her to do so. Yesterday my eyes were filled with water, when she recited her poem in front of us. This was the poem from her first book. The poem’s summary I would like to state here. It was written on her own life…the time when she delivered her third child…a baby girl….two days went ..she was in the hospital…no one came to see her…she was happy just because atleast her third child was with her.. Third day her eldest girl came with the tifiin…she asked where is your father….girl said he was coming but the grand mom stopped him saying….Ladki hi toh hai…kya karega ja ke…pata nahi kiase palega teen teen ladkiyon ko…..she was choked with grief.….
Later she also delivered a boy…coz of which she was accepted in the family….but the things change….her son left them alone in the home, settled somewhere else…and here she and her husband dint have that much earning to pay the rent of that house. But it was her girl who helped them get a new two room flat in the same city…and she feels proud on her daughters….and has forgotten that she ever had a son….

Second, came an Advocate, who also grew strong even if she was very much dominated by her family. She gave a great alarming speech to the audience sitting….Jago nari Jago… She said she gets so many cases on violence done on the women of home…and she dictated…..It can only be stopped with proper education and belief in oneself…and raising voice against the women exploiters…

Third was a lady gynecologist….she raised her voice against the female infanticide….and the imbalance entering in the society….. She encouraged our thoughts in helping the weaker people and distributing our knowledge to others….

Fourth was a female reporter…who drove her bike for four days to cover whole of the MP and CG.

Fifth was the MLA, and the Principal of the school….she started her work by providing free education to the students in a temple….but soon she found through the doctors that her daughter is loosing her vision and would become blind in the coming few years…they went at every worship places…but nothing worked…but their was some miracle or say their was always one positive force behind her due to which she always remained the topper in the school and now she has got the admission in engineering college….. The lady now runs a school which started with just 70 and now has 700 students….she is also the elected MLA….and is also doing social service.

Sixth was a teacher (who is my lovely aunt too) in a school named Prayas- working for the handicapped children. This school is till class 12th having CBSE board. She feels proud of herself that she is working for the children who can’t listen and hence can’t speak. Here I would like to mention that I once went in the annual function of this school and was amazed to see their performances on stage…mind blowing…..can we ourselves imagine dancing without music, giving right steps to every beat……noooooooooooo..i cant..but hat’s off to the students as well as their teachers who teach them so nicely ….so effortlessly….and so efficiently…. This school has lots of female teachers …as the management too feels that the women has more patience and love which is necessary in such type of deels….I agree…….

Well there were many more women who were to be honored, but I had to leave early for the home as I got a call that my son needed me….See here again the need for a mother, an Aai(in our mother tongue..ie..marathi), mom whatever you may call…meaning and the essence remain the same….

But I wished I could have stayed there for some more time…nevertheless I got to hear such inspiring real women stories…their fight, their struggle…and still making there own paths towards the goal which they always aimed for…..and wished for…..

PROUD OF ALL YOU WOMEN AND MANY MORE WHOM I DON’T KNOW BUT CAN IMAGINE…..

Women --- Love yourself for being YOU

From the past few days, I have been thinking that why a girl/woman is so much praised in a song. This question came to me by my friend long time back & I could only say, "that’s because she likes that". Simple.... A girl feels happy when she is appreciated for her looks, features, work...etc. Isn't it girls???

But really does these flattery verses softens a girl’s heart towards the boy? What say? I believe yes they do to an extent, but the genuinity and sincerity must be reflected...

Take for eg: -A song of Ghulam which got so much popular amongst the road side Romeos...and the girls got disgusted.
But the song originally, is so nice and simple. Here I say the feeling and genuinity of the person devoting is very important.



Women have always been admired and have always been praised for their various qualities. In poetries, in stories, in articles etc, but here I would only discuss girl/women through the eyes of the lyricist/singers………….as lyricist write these beautiful verses and singers sing it through their soul....
From the era of K.L. Sehgal to the era of Shankar Mahadevan….A girl has been compared with numerous things. Let us check out, the songs coz which the GOD considers himself to be a Proud Creator of - WOMAN.....



Few songs through which “she” is praised for her:
Face:
Chaudhavi ka chaand ho……
Meine poocha chaand se ki dekha hai kahin, mere chand sa hasin……
Chaand mera dil, chandni ho tum
Yeh chaand sa roshan chehra……julfon ka rang sunehra…..
Teri pyari pyari surat ko……….
Ek ladki ko dekha toh aisa laga……
Teri husn ki kya tariff karu…..
Phoolon sa chehra tera……
Tum kitni khoobsurat ho….yeh mere dil se poocho….
Chaand si mehbooba ho meri kabaisa meine socha tha……
Tu roop ki rani …….


Eyes:
Pehli nazar mein kaisa jadoo kar diya……
Jeevan se bhari teri ankhen……………
Yeh jheel si neeli ankhen…koi raaj hai inme gehra…taarif karu kya uski…
Yeh kali kali ankhen………………………
Do naina mataware tihare,,,humpe jurum karee…….
Surili ankhiyon wale…..suna hai teri ankhiyon se…..
Teri ankhon ke siwa duniya mein rakha kya hia…..
Rang bhare badal se, tere nainon ke kajal se…..
Kajare kajrare, teri kali kali ankhen….
Janeman janeman tere do nayan..chori chori leke gaye dekho mera mun…
Jadoo tera badan……
Ankhen teri kitni haseen…dekh ke inko…..meh kho gaya hun..

Accessories:
Chudi nahi yeh mera dil hai……..
Odhli chunariya meine tere naam ki…………
Teri bindiya re…….

Badan pe sitare lapete hue....

Looks:
Masakali, masakali...ud matakali…
Patli kamar chalka ke..nagin si balkha ke…
Aye gulbadan…fulon ki mehek…
Kya khoob lagti ho..badi sundar dikhti ho…
Chandan sa badan…chanchal chitwan….

Dream girl kisi shayar ki ghajal...

She’s got the look…..

Smile:
Madhyam madhyam teri gili hansi…….
Tum pass aye…yun muskuraye…..

Lips:
Hoth Rasile tere hoth rasile
Choo lene do najuk hothon ko…..

Hothon se choo lo tum....

Hair:
Yeh reshmi Julfein…..yeh sharbati ankhen……
Jhonka hawa ka aaj bhi……
Khulti julfon ne sikhayi mausmao ko shayari……(hosh walon…)

Adaaa:
Uff…teri ada…..
Ladki hai kya ..re baba…iski ada..re baba…

Walk:
Tauba yeh matwali chaal…….jhook jaye phoolon ki daal..

Kaan mein jhoomka..chaal mein thumka.....

For everything:

Tujhme rab dikhta hia yaara mein kya karu…..
Bakhuda tumhi ho….
Tum ho toh....gata hai dil…….
Chhoo kar mere mun ko kiya tune kya ishara…
Tujhe dekha toh yeh jana sanam…
Everything I do ..i do it for you…
Tum aa gaye ho noor aa gaya hai…
Dil ibadat kar raha hai….
Tumse acha kaun hai….
Rehna tu hai jaise tu….
Tumse mil ke ….aisa laga …..
Khwab ho tum ya koi haqqeeqat…

(PS-this is for all you girls who want to experience immense pleasure of getting a birth of girl; and, to all boys who want their girls to be always happy) – And yes if you can add any to the list...you are most welcome......

HAPPY HOLI

I on my behalf of my family and myself. wish you a Happy Holi.........

May you enjoy every second of it.......

May You eat lots of Gujias.....mathri....puran poli's.....chuda...etc etc....

May Your stomachs' diameter increases so that the suface area for the person who puts colour on you would become more and in that case you would make him more happy.

May you do all naughty things...and you are not recognised for ...

May you look like a Colourful parrot...and all your friends come to see you..and say...."hey hi yeh tu hi hai kya, kabootar,,,??????"

May you brush your teeth properly to have that sparkling effect once you smile....Your teeth having a border and shading of mixed awesome colours...

May you don't have to bear the expenses of colouring your hair...as it will be borne by your friends...at the end of the day you will see your hair .....multicoloured....

And at the end...No space for more colour....No space for more of modern painting....you are fulll your skin is fulll....and you go to have a bath...and here you get a nice warm welcome....Sorry no pani......No water in the tanki......:-()

Sorry to all folks.....but this happened to my friend today..hihihihi.......

Anyways Enjoy....On a serious Note-Which song you sing the most when you think of this colourful festival.......??????